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January 19, 2005
Evil EVIL beyond all words and reasoning
If I could only tar and feather each judge that supported this destruction of a small child. This is another horrible example of the elevation of BLOOD over love when it comes to children. This is yet another example of THE LIE that the judiciary considers "the best interest of the child." If they DID, the child would have been left with his real parents, the Scotts and have told the egg and sperm donors to get on with their lives.
I can't even find the words to express the depth of the anger and rage I'm feeling right now. Egg donor Amanda Hopkins and sperm donor Stephen White are some of the most disgusting excuses for human beings. They are complicit murderers of the soul of one 3 and 1/2 year-old child they claim as "theirs."
I would like to meet them in person, to spit in their faces.
UPDATE more here.
UPDATE II The child-hating judge who made the decision to send Evan SCOTT to his egg donor is Duval County Family Court Judge Waddell Wallace III -- phone #904-630-2111. Address: 330 E Bay St. Jacksonville, FL 32202-2921. Wallace destroys families in rm 227.
Posted by Darleen at January 19, 2005 05:53 PM
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Right on sister! I love that you posted the judge's number. This story is heartbreaking. It also makes me furious. Poor poor Evan.
Posted by: Mieke at January 20, 2005 09:21 PM
Well my dear Darlene, it appears we agree on at least one thing.
The judge should have left the boy with the people who sought him out and cared for him. I would like to hear of some group tieing him to a streetlight so passersby can use him for target practice with objects from a nearby fruit and vegetable stand.
The biological parents are screwed up. They weren't married when the boy was born. The deadbeat was using a woman he wasn't married to for his own carnal delight. The woman was stupid enough to allow this situation even though they had no commitment. (Where there is a lack of morality there is a lack of order) When he learned of the pending adoption he filed action to halt it for his own motive be it good or bad. And then the birth mother filed for custody just so HE couldn't have the child. Sounds to me like the two birth parents should have court ordered therapy and then be sterilized so they can't traumatize any more children.
Posted by: Morgan Painter at January 21, 2005 11:41 AM
Well, I guess it is laundry day.
Since I also have a blog- this is kinda scary to share, but alas, courage is not for the morally weak.
I have a child that I placed for adoption. THis story is horrific. I cannot imagine the pain inflicted on the family that adopted this young boy. More so, I cannot imagine the trauma this poor boy has been made to endure just because an irrisponsible woman and man don't want to practice mercy and accountablility. THis biological "mother" (spit) is shameless. The judge NEVER considered the best interest of the child- all he considered was this crazy notion that a child is a piece of property and DNA is some kind of RECEIPT. Thanks for posting this story. I share your outrage. Bearing children is NOT child's play, and adoption is NOT a game. ALL mothers and fathers should undergo counseling if they plan to place a child for adoption- BEFORE the child is born. If they don't- they do not get to even begin to challenge the adoption. I went through counseling while I was pregnant. It was truly the hardest thing I have ever done. You literally tear your heart from your chest and hand it to strangers, praying they don't break it. But just because it is painful does not give you priority over destroying the lives of others.
It was explained to me that the court would approve the adoption one month after my duaghter was born. I did not have to go to this hearing, but if I didn't- (Most mothers don't) the adoption would not be final until 6 months later. I was the first "birth mother" this judge had ever encountered coming to the hearing. I volunteered to testify. THis would take away the option of me to change my mind in the next 6 months and allow the adoption to be "legal" on that very day. I did this. When they asked me why- (most don't because it is embarassing and shameful to show up in person and give up your parental rights.) I told them because I wanted them to spend the next 6 months in peace. They deserved to not pace the floors and live in fear that I would change my mind and try to take their baby away. I interviewed couples and CHOSE her parents. They came to her delivery. I told them to visit in the hospital, bring their friends and family- I knew they had waited for her for many years. They told me no- this was MY time with her. They had her for the rest of her life. I will never forget their kindness. I fed my duaghter, bathed her, and changed her for the next 48 hours. One day she may ask me why I didn't love her enough to keep her. My reply will be this: "I loved you enough to keep you. In fact, I loved you more than that. I will always love you- I just gave you the opportunity for much much more than just my love. Giving you to your parents was not out of lack of love, but out of PURE LOVE!" I think about her all the time. SHe is no less a part of me. I know I gave her and her parents the peace they deserved and needed. These stories anger me to no end. The most vital part of being a parent is putting the child above yourself. PERIOD!
Posted by: Sherri Reese at January 21, 2005 01:21 PM